This content originally appeared on DEV Community and was authored by A. Moreno
Here’s something I wish I’d learned earlier: in tech, your growth isn’t just about the tutorials you watch, the courses you buy, or the number of commits you push. It’s about the people you surround yourself with. The truth is, good friends in tech can change your trajectory faster than any “10x productivity” tool ever could.
When I first started out, I thought learning to code was a solo grind. Just me, my laptop, and hours of Stack Overflow tabs. I figured that if I just worked hard enough, I’d eventually “make it.” But then I started meeting other developers — at meetups, on Discord, through open-source projects — and something clicked. The conversations, the code reviews, the random “hey, have you tried this library?” moments did more for my skills than weeks of isolated studying ever did.
The best kind of friends in tech are the ones who challenge you just enough. They don’t compete with you; they push you. They’ll call out your bad habits (“stop hardcoding that already”), share their favorite tools, and celebrate your wins even when theirs are different. It’s the kind of dynamic where you both want to see each other succeed, and somehow, you both do.
And it’s not just about professional growth. The tech world can get lonely — especially if you’re working remote or switching between projects all the time. Having friends who get it makes all the difference. The ones who understand what burnout feels like. The ones you can message at 2 AM when your code refuses to run, not for help, but just to vent. Those are the people who make this career sustainable.
Over time, these friendships evolve. You’ll start seeing your friends’ influence in your code, your problem-solving style, even your attitude toward failure. You’ll start realizing that collaboration isn’t just a skill — it’s a mindset. Tech moves too fast for any of us to figure everything out alone. So we share knowledge, trade feedback, and lift each other up when we’re running on empty.
And funny enough, those connections often lead to the best opportunities. A friend recommends you for a job. Another pulls you into a project. Someone you helped debug a CSS nightmare months ago becomes your teammate. None of it is forced or “networking” — it’s just genuine relationships that naturally pay off over time.
So if you’re early in your journey, don’t just focus on learning frameworks or grinding LeetCode. Go to that local dev meetup. Join that niche open-source Discord. Offer to help someone who’s stuck on a problem. The code will always be there, but it’s the people you grow with who’ll make you a developer worth working with — and a person worth remembering.
This content originally appeared on DEV Community and was authored by A. Moreno
A. Moreno | Sciencx (2025-11-04T00:12:20+00:00) The People Who Make You a Better Developer. Retrieved from https://www.scien.cx/2025/11/04/the-people-who-make-you-a-better-developer/
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